I believe that our lives are predestined. In laymen’s terms everything that occurs throughout our lives happens exactly how and when it’s suppose to. So,because we’ve created a path in which we would like to see ourselves on, we often latch on to what we thought should have happened. When in all actuality holding on to something causes more damage than letting go. At some point you just have to let go of what you thought should have happen and live in what is happening; you will realize that turning the page or letting go is the best feeling in the world, because you find that there is so much more to life than what you are stuck on.
So let that shit go and focus on all of the things that are positive in your life; because what consumes your mind, ultimately controls your life.